Then I told my daughter that Rosie was going to live with her mommy- she really misses her mommy. And at first that was ok. But then literally, 10 minutes later out of NOWHERE, Olivia starts balling. Wants me to take a picture of her and Rosie for "her memory".
To which he tells me they are no longer a no-kill shelter and he had to sign off saying if she wasn't adopted soon that she would be put down. Again, I felt like mother fucking shit. And I had two crying kids for 3 days. And I cried too- no lie.
2. What's the worst sexual encounter you've ever had? This would be my second boyfriend. He wasn't meant to be a serious relationship, he was strictly rebound. We had gone out of town for the night and while at the hotel room, we started having sex. Except I wasn't really feeling it, I had decided the day before I was going to break it off, and so I wasn't um...enthusiastic? So he's watching tv while I'm barely doing my thing and then I fell asleep. It was pretty bad. If he wasn't feeling it, I don't know why he initiated but it was annoying. Plus he never lasted long and was REALLY heavy and would put all of his weight on me. So I literally felt like I was being crushed. Awful.
3. What is one thing that will get you all hot & bothered almost every time? Being tied up, kisses on my neck/ears and when the guy seems super eager to get going.
4. What is one thing that you haven't tried sexually that you think you might want to do. Eventually. Honestly? I think we've tried most everything. There isn't anything that's ever been in a Cosmo or Talk Sex with Sue show that we haven't tried. And I'm pretty open to a lot of things. Just tell me before hand- don't spring it on me right before I'm about to climax. Mood killer.
5. If there is one thing that you would change about your partner's sexual technique- what would it be? Ok- so basically his technique is great. Matt has a um...talent....that I love. He knows what it is. ;) But at some point he learned that *some women* like it when you hum while giving oral. I don't. It's annoying and does nothing for me. And it's weird. What the fuck is that supposed to do? Guys- if you are doing it-- stop.
6. Top or bottom? Definitely on top. I don't really like the slow & gentle (for awhile it's fine...like in the beginning) but honestly? The hard & fast is the way to go for me and the best way to do that is for me to be on top. OR, me on my back with legs straight up in the air.
7. Talking or no talking? I don't like to talk. I like being in the zone and concentrating on what's going on. If the guy talks it's fine- but jesus. There is a point where too much is too much. But dead silence is weird too. I'll tell you if you're doing something wrong or something you are doing is really right- but aside from that, I'm not going to talk dirty to you. I think it's silly and I'll start laughing.
8. Oral sex- yay or nay? Yay for receiving. Definitely. And this is where I'm going to get a lot of guy haters- I hate giving. I really do. Not only does it do nothing for me, it's just boring to me. BUT...I will on occasion. Every night/time? No. And don't ask me to swallow. I won't eat vegetables so don't expect me to eat that. ;)
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