Dudes, we're not turning into a porn site but this week's Dear Sara post is all about sex. I have some hornball lambwhores with serious issues.
Let's get it on.
1. Will you mail me a snickers? I'm kind of hungry. Absolutely. Give me your addy and I will mail it.
2. How do I make my very own flux capacitor? I can't be 100% sure but I think maybe taking a bunch of speedballs would help?
3. Why don't you want to answer questions of the sexual nature? Oh I have no qualms about that lovely. See below for proof. :)
4. My boyfriend wants me to be on top, but I feel like I have no rhythm, especially when I try to have sex cowgirl or reverse cowgirl style. I also worry about how I look when I am on top, because I have a bit of a belly. What tips do you have for being on top, and feeling sexy and confident while doing so? The rhythm is going to be what does it for YOU. If you're on top... it's about you and I think the guy just wants to be able to see you in your best moment... which is orgasm. Now, I know that not only for me but for a lot of other women, it's easier to climax on top- mostly because you control the angle, the speed, etc. Nobody looks good doing reverse cowgirl and I get how guys think it looks great... but guys- it does nothing for most chicks. Nothing. You're literally hitting a wall and it just feels like your stabbing us with your dick. Which.. kind of kills the mood. And I have a belly. I do, I have a belly AND a kangaroo pouch. Embrace it. Seriously. The guy is not caring, he's not even focusing on that- he's looking at your face and your boobs. If it helps to close your eyes.. do it. Seriously. I was always self conscious but once I started having really great orgasms you basically don't care. You just want the guy to lay there, let you do your thing and occasionally slap. :)